• Tammy Davis

New York City, The Bible and the Hundred Dollar Bill

I give myself the credit and blame for my daughter’s love of The

Big Apple. I just dropped her off for a two-week program. I don’t know

how she talked me into this. Or, maybe I do.

I was almost exactly her age when I talked my mother into

convincing my father into letting us go to NYC. My daddy wasn’t

leaving Lee County, but he agreed to let us go.

Our mother-daughter weekend was set. We had a few hours

before the first item on our itinerary. My mother wanted to wait on

the group, but I was ready to go. The concierge assured us we were

very close to Times Square. “Make sure you turn the right way,” he


We didn’t. Instead of heading right to go to Times Square, we

turned left, towards Hell’s Kitchen. This was not Giuliani’s squeaky-

clean Broadway. No, this was Mayor Koch’s grimy, gritty New York of

the 80’s. We passed one XXX show after another, careful not to step on

homeless along the way.

We finally made it back to the hotel. My mother held me by the

wrist the way angry mothers do. We got to our room and called my

father. She told him we were not leaving the hotel until it was time to

come home on Sunday.

I’m not sure what my daddy said, but I’m thankful for it. Probably

something like, “This is what you both wanted so no need crying about

it now.” And then he must have told her that he slipped some extra

money in her Bible in case of emergency - the equivalent of him leaving

her a sweet note, his way of making everything alright.

Somehow, over the telephone, my father fixed it all. My big city

adventure was back on. We left with our group and stepped out into a

big, beautiful, very different world. We were not in Bishopville


On that trip, I rode in a limousine for the first time. It took us to

the Lincoln Center. The show was awful, but the experience changed

me. I remember standing in front of the iconic fountain in the Lincoln

Center Plaza, mesmerized by beautiful big-city people who looked

different from my beautiful small-town folks.

Yes, thirty-six years ago I stood in that spot with my mama who

somehow talked my daddy into letting us go and see another piece of

the world. My mother got scared but got over it. Now, it’s my turn.

My daughter’s dorm, part of the Fordham University Satellite

Campus, shares the plaza with the Lincoln Center. I just left her beside

that very fountain where I first fell in love with New York City. Now she

gets to look at that fountain and all it represents. For two weeks, she

will be a part of that world. She will not be in mine. And, as a parent, I

have to be OK with that.

It was not easy leaving my child in that big city. But in the same

way I wanted to see the world when I was 16, my daughter wants to

see it now. My job is to let her.

Before the two weeks is out, she may call me crying, the same

way my mother called my father. I will be tempted to say something

like, “Well this is what you wanted so no need to cry about it now.” I’ll

be tempted to say that, but I won’t. Instead I’ll listen. I’ll remind her

she comes from strong stock.

I’ll tell her to look in the pocket of her suitcase. In honor of my

first trip to NYC when I was 16, in the spirit of young girls with big

dreams and mothers who try to let them have them, I packed

something special. I packed a Bible with a hundred-dollar bill tucked


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